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Der allererste Kontakt nach meinem zaghaften Hallo.

--- Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com> schrieb am Do, 30.6.2011:

Von: Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com>
Betreff: ashley firstaffair
An: "valeska@yahoo.com" <valeska@yahoo.com>
Datum: Donnerstag, 30. Juni, 2011 21:46 Uhr

my lady how re you doing and how is everything going with you ,i work in US Amy presently in Afghanistan,i have a son 10yrs old and am 42yrs old and i lost his mother like 4yrs ago she died of cancer and since then i decided to take mission which i have been doing trying to help my great country America and i love to be with some one to forget the past someone to take her kids as mine and mine as her own to make a better life and make things work and i believe we could make a good and happy family if we get to know each other and make things work.You re big does not matter all i want is the good woman that will love me for who i am and make me happy.i will b happy to know more about you as well,kids ,live,work,how really old re u because you look more younger than your age ,well you need to tell me the secret behind it.kisses and hugs to brightening your day

Nach dieser Mail chatteten wir ein wenig. Das schlechte Englisch fiel mir zwar auf aber noch war ich nicht misstrauisch, zumindest nicht mehr als bei jedem anderen auch :) Hier ist die Mail, die auf unseren kleinen Plausch bei Yahoo folgte:

--- Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com> schrieb am Sa, 2.7.2011:

Von: Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com>
Betreff: Re: firstaffair
An: "Valeska" <valeska@yahoo.com>
Datum: Samstag, 2. Juli, 2011 05:26 Uhr

Hello sweetheart,
    How are you and hope you enjoy chatting with me as i do with you, well am only trying to express my feelings to you because am in love with you, i read back all over conversation and i look that some words are so strong in all what we have discuss... Sweetheart just wanting you to know that you are so special and wonderful...well to me i think we have know a lot of things about each other and i don't know what else we are still going to talk about anymore... In short we still have a lot to talk about because our heart need more love and care, well like i said am here to care for you, respect you for who you are and am here to always make you happy,..Sitting here and thinking about the times we've spent together, I still wonder if I'm dreaming this magical life with you. Being in love with you brings joy into my life again, when I thought I couldn't feel this way about anyone anymore. You came into my life and made everything so much easier and better. You mean everything to me and I'm just thankful that you're in my life. The road for us is still long and wide, but remember I will always be by your side to support you no matter what. You make me feel loved, you make me feel safe, but more importantly, you make me feel wanted. We both knew our relationship would grow right from the very first day we we sent message to each other on dating site. But, neither one of us could begin to imagine the love we both feel, not exploding or thundering into our hearts, but just slowly growing into a beautiful relationship that only you and I can understand. You are my soul mate, my best friend, my inspiration, and my love. I adore and cherish you... Now i want you to know that you are loved by someone, the person that will always be there for you when ever you need him. Missing you so much sweetheart.
Your Love.

Ich sollte erwähnen, dass er bereits im Chat gestanden hat, dass er sich verliebt hat. Die Masche, die die Jungs und Mädels am häufigsten benutzen. Das ständige Wiederholen tiefe Gefühle zu haben und etwaige Bedenken gnadenlos zu ignorieren und zu versichern, dass sie auch nicht wüßten warum aber es wäre so.

Hier kommt noch eine gute. Ihr werdet bemerken, dass es im Grunde immer die gleiche Mail ist, die ein wenig differenziert wurde:

--- Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com> schrieb am So, 3.7.2011:

Von: Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com>
Betreff: Missing you.
An: "Valeska" <valeska@yahoo.com>
Datum: Sonntag, 3. Juli, 2011 12:48 Uhr

Hello sweetheart.. How are you ,.. Just want you to know that you are so special and i really love you so much......I have never in my life met someone more beautiful, enjoyable, loving, and comforting as you. Since the very first day that I chat with you I knew there was something very special about you. I had no idea then that I would fall in love, but now that I have, I am so grateful. I am grateful for us to have wandered into one another's world so softly and unexpectedly. Nature took its course on our hearts and joined them in a way never imaginable  I want you to know, that from the very depths of my heart, I love you. And I love everything that creates you,  I wish I could kiss while you sleep; from your eyes - that sparkle when you smile. to your nose - that I wish I could rub my nose against; from your lips - that I just know were made perfectly to fit against mine... to your chin - that I would love to place my finger under to pull you close for a kiss; down your neck and to your heart - that in my own, I claim as mine, and down past every inch of every part of your existence.I wish more than anything that you and I could grow together, love together, learn together, and laugh together, forever. I sincerely feel that between the two of us, we have the kind of love that some people never get a chance to experience. I promise to love you as much as I can, as best as I can, and for as long as I can. And no matter what, it's very important to me for you to know that you are an irreplaceable spirit that will always be a part of me.
Kisses and hugs

Ashley

und hier noch eine:

--- Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com> schrieb am Mo, 4.7.2011:

Von: Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com>
Betreff: i love you sweetheart.
An: "Valeska" <valeska@yahoo.com>
Datum: Montag, 4. Juli, 2011 07:54 Uhr

Hello honey how are you doing, and happy independent day, missing you so much, how i wish we are together celebrating this together.....darling I am dreaming about you as much as you are dreaming of me. I am really missing you too my dear. I think of us hand-in-hand standing there together and my body aches because I want you so much. Knowing that I have your heart,your hand,your devotion,your burning desire pleases me very much. I dream all the time of us together here in your house making love to each other till we can not continue anymore. I vow and promise to make our  (love making) the best you have ever had...  I vow to  do my best every second of every day to not disappoint you,to love you,honor you,care for you,not let any person come between us,and last but by not  least have only one woman and that is you. I want no other woman because all my love,all my heart,all my passion,all desires belong to you. I in trust to you the key to my heart,soul and my whole world,the only things I ask in return is for you to be honest with me,love me,honor me,cherish me,and never ,.... You are my heart and i really love you with all my heart,.... Just want you to know that i cant do without you.
Kisses and hugs to you.
Ashley.

Als er vier Tage verschollen war, erhielt ich zwischendurch diese Mail:

--- Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com> schrieb am Mi, 6.7.2011:

Von: Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com>
Betreff: Re: ???
An: "Valeska" <valeska@yahoo.com>
Datum: Mittwoch, 6. Juli, 2011 12:57 Uhr

Am sorry i have been busy right now am on a tour in iraq i will write you soon love you

Ich nehme an, dieses Weichkochen gehört auch zur Masche. Allerdings kann er auch anderweitig beschäftigt gewesen sein. Das werden wir wohl nie herausfinden.

Gut ist auch die hier:
--- Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com> schrieb am Do, 14.7.2011:

Von: Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com>
Betreff: Re: my angel
An: "Valeska" <valeska@yahoo.com>
Datum: Donnerstag, 14. Juli, 2011 14:16 Uhr

You are the very air that I breathe, the very love that I need, my heart, my soul, my everything. The sweetest of my memories come when I think of you. I remember the very first day that I saw you, I could not believe I was looking at a human being. I pinched myself the hardest one could ever do so as to wake myself up from the drunken stupor I was in. For a moment I believed I was in heaven; I even danced to the music the angels were singing. Upon opening my eyes I realized I was not in heaven but that an angel had come down to earth, just for me.i love you more than you imagine. ashley

--- Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com> schrieb am Do, 21.7.2011:

Von: Ashley Phil <ashleyphil45@yahoo.com>
Betreff: Re:my angel
An: "Valeska" <valeska@yahoo.com>
Datum: Donnerstag, 21. Juli, 2011 12:06 Uhr

i am glad you came into my life and make me feel loved again.i will for ever hold close to you and never treat you wrong ,you are my angel and thank you for being there for me.everyday i keep loving you more honey.

Soviel zu den Mails, die sie benutzen, um sich in die Köpfe und Herzen ihrer Opfer zu schleichen. Ich bin mir nicht sicher, ob das bei vielen klappt, jedoch vielleicht bei einigen, deren Englisch nicht so geübt ist, denen die Fehler nicht so auffallen.

Ich hoffe auf Eure Beiträge, Mailauszüge und Namen etc.

Alles Liebe
Eure Miss Pink